I heard about some secret ratio where if you found a page with twice as many followers as you, and you commented on their post within the first day or whatever, your comment would be at the top of their feed, which would make people with fewer followers than you, check out your page, and follow you, to be associated with a larger followed page, to get more followers… (Jeez, that sentence was exhausting)… Then the not so common “dig” on something I had posted would reel in my head all day while the compliments and encouragements would stack up, and fall away, but not really leave an effect. That negative comment, or puking emoji, would prove that I indeed wasn’t yet “liked” by everyone. For my personality type, that was just not something I could accept. I’m a true-born, insecurity steeped, attention seeker, with a humble facade.
It’s not something I was ever cognitively aware of. I actually had a couple friends try to point it out to me early on in my life, also early on in my tattooing.
I have actually been told it quite a few times throughout my life, by quite a few people that it is never enough for me. “When will it be enough?” The thing about awareness is… until one is aware of something, they are unaware. It may be obvious to someone else, because they have a different perspective.
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